The more the couple are in love, the more they trust each other... everyone agree with that?
Ok! here is my strange idea... by observing, thinking, and experiencing I found out that…
The more we love… the less we trust
The less we love... The more we trust
Yeh yeh! I know the flow of thoughts that push on your brain, but allow me to explain my strange idea… and the logic that I have based it upon.
It happens; mainly due to unbalanced degree of love between couples… moreover, the degree of romance each of the couple has.
In order to clarify my theory, let’s imagine that we have two persons, (A) and (B), who are in love; and let’s assume that (A) loves (B) more
Believing in the great love, and the high expectation that (A) has… a bitter feeling starts to dominate in (A)’s heart, thinking that the given love is not met by the proper degree, gratitude, and feelings… (A) then starts to misinterpret any word or action made by (B), which raise arguments, thus loss of faith and trust in the partner, and the relationship as a whole
As (B) loves (A) moderately, normally maybe practically… we will find that (B) has no problem at all in trusting (A)... Knowing the degree of (A)’s love… which became much more than just love… it becomes kinda worshiping, and adoration… things are taken for granted, knowing that (A) would do anything for (B)
Now! Are you (A) or (B)?
Sometimes (A)… loves more and suffers
Sometimes (B)… loves less and suffers
Sometimes (C)… What I didn’t mention this one??!!
Oh! Sorry … (C) is the one who experience zero degree of both values
NO LOVE … NO TRUST…
Absolute neutral feelings, enjoyed by singles
I know what some may say, if the degree of love is not the same, so it is not a true love… common!!! That is not real life talk… we all know in a way or another the degree of love will never be the same, and the best we can hope for is to have the minimum possible difference!
And yes there are many types of love, platonic love, balanced romantic love, normal love, practical love …. You name it … it depends on the personality of the person!!!
So again which one you have experienced before? And is experiencing now!!