when --(10)-- meets --(1)-- the effect depends on how they will both meet, and what is the surrounding environment ... will they add to each other, or take from each other ...
why --(10)-- ?! why --(1)--??!
two extremes in my opinion, standing at the end of the basic numbers line ... separated by many things ...
mapping this fact a man --(10)-- meets a woman --(1)-- , two extreme physically and mentally, each carry the heritage of thousands of years, the superior man, deep in his mind look at a woman as a weak creature that has no right but follow his wishes ... and a woman who think that she is standing alone with unique thinking that was never appreciated by the man ...
such thoughts are planted in the human minds ... it is the base of the relationship between the two ... even if they don’t admit it ... a gesture or a simple word will let it all out, and then division in the being created from both of them start to spread cutting a peace after another ...
back to calculations ...
10+1 = 11 ...
when a man add a woman to his life, he promises with leading the beautiful union to a better life, a life that is too sweet like chocolates and even better .. a life that worth be lived and fight for ...
but the question that I always ask to myself based on my readings in the human behavior .. is he really lead the union to better life ... or need a follower and some kind of companion ... or maybe need someone to back him up and protect his existence from the sinful, violent world ?!!
modern men --(a fact in my society in a famous middle-eastern country)-- when put plans for marriage, the want both a follower and a body guard ... he looks for a woman that can do many roles at the same time, a mix of a mother and a sister (who in my country serve the her male brother), a wife, and even a concubine ... unfortunately most women doesn’t really have this complex way of thinking, when they get engaged the only idea in their mind is to live an enchanting feeling of a princess who will be taken by the handsome prince to live in a beautiful castle forever, and will be taken care off ... but the truth is she is considered as the back of her man,the one who take all the hits ,,, to protect his sacred being, and cover his weakness and sense of ir-responsibility
simple mathematics show this fact ... observe the position of the added one ... it take the place of the zero .. fill it with a concrete existence .. standing behind the other one who look always to the front and never look back to the feelings of the other whose attention is focused always on him
someone told me once ... a woman is only apart of a man's life, but a man is everything in a woman's life ... true .. even simple mathematics proves it .. :)
10-1=9
the effect of human complexity is fatal ... relationships are like butterfly wings, once they are touched they never be the same, they diminish to death ...
the hardest thing is the moments of separation two existences, become one ... then brutally separated by evil forces that haunt the innocent dream and fill the space between them with hatred and agony...
when one leave it takes a piece of the other ... a piece that is made of lived moments, laughs and cries, pleasure and pain, problems and happy times ... all this fade away leaving a deformed being that lost what make it .. it both were consumed badly cause of planted selfish feelings ... but ... and there is no point in placing the blame ... isn’t it enough that it is over ??!!
Drops of memories
--(11)-- I am backing you up .. am blindly devoted to you .. all what I wish ... to look at me from time to time .. and feel what I suffer from your un-true existence ...
why --(10)-- ?! why --(1)--??!
two extremes in my opinion, standing at the end of the basic numbers line ... separated by many things ...
mapping this fact a man --(10)-- meets a woman --(1)-- , two extreme physically and mentally, each carry the heritage of thousands of years, the superior man, deep in his mind look at a woman as a weak creature that has no right but follow his wishes ... and a woman who think that she is standing alone with unique thinking that was never appreciated by the man ...
such thoughts are planted in the human minds ... it is the base of the relationship between the two ... even if they don’t admit it ... a gesture or a simple word will let it all out, and then division in the being created from both of them start to spread cutting a peace after another ...
back to calculations ...
10+1 = 11 ...
when a man add a woman to his life, he promises with leading the beautiful union to a better life, a life that is too sweet like chocolates and even better .. a life that worth be lived and fight for ...
but the question that I always ask to myself based on my readings in the human behavior .. is he really lead the union to better life ... or need a follower and some kind of companion ... or maybe need someone to back him up and protect his existence from the sinful, violent world ?!!
modern men --(a fact in my society in a famous middle-eastern country)-- when put plans for marriage, the want both a follower and a body guard ... he looks for a woman that can do many roles at the same time, a mix of a mother and a sister (who in my country serve the her male brother), a wife, and even a concubine ... unfortunately most women doesn’t really have this complex way of thinking, when they get engaged the only idea in their mind is to live an enchanting feeling of a princess who will be taken by the handsome prince to live in a beautiful castle forever, and will be taken care off ... but the truth is she is considered as the back of her man,the one who take all the hits ,,, to protect his sacred being, and cover his weakness and sense of ir-responsibility
simple mathematics show this fact ... observe the position of the added one ... it take the place of the zero .. fill it with a concrete existence .. standing behind the other one who look always to the front and never look back to the feelings of the other whose attention is focused always on him
someone told me once ... a woman is only apart of a man's life, but a man is everything in a woman's life ... true .. even simple mathematics proves it .. :)
10-1=9
the effect of human complexity is fatal ... relationships are like butterfly wings, once they are touched they never be the same, they diminish to death ...
the hardest thing is the moments of separation two existences, become one ... then brutally separated by evil forces that haunt the innocent dream and fill the space between them with hatred and agony...
when one leave it takes a piece of the other ... a piece that is made of lived moments, laughs and cries, pleasure and pain, problems and happy times ... all this fade away leaving a deformed being that lost what make it .. it both were consumed badly cause of planted selfish feelings ... but ... and there is no point in placing the blame ... isn’t it enough that it is over ??!!
Drops of memories
--(11)-- I am backing you up .. am blindly devoted to you .. all what I wish ... to look at me from time to time .. and feel what I suffer from your un-true existence ...
***Dark Me***
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